Let's pretend

While Damen and I were pretending to drive race cars we stopped for ice cream. I "gave" him his cone and pretended to get mine. He "licked" his and turned to the side to spit it out!

"EWWW This is disgusting!"

Quickly I replied, "Oh no, here have mine, it's chocolate." He took mine, "licked" it and said,

"Yuck, this one has peanuts mom, I have to spit it," He turned his head and spit it out again.

Both times he actually spit it out, on my leg. Thanks Damen for the fun times in pretend land!

Boys

Kaden Zack Damen

Things I learned. . .

While visiting family last week: Old men(my dad aka Grandpa) of 62 can learn new tricks



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and new babies(Samantha) of 8 weeks old can too!

cows and cats

Damen asked me, "Is that the seed?" I said, upon close inspection, "It kinda looks like a cat liver." Damen, "YEAH we're gonna throw it at the cows!!"


Some back story:

The other day we were eating plums and I told Damen how as kids we used to throw plums at the cows in our pasture. Although I'm sure it didn't sound so cruel like that. Anyway, I took out the pit of his plum and stuck it on my plate and Damen asked me, "Is that the seed?" I said, upon close inspection, "Yup, it kinda looks like a cat liver." Damen, "YEAH we're gonna throw it at the cows!!"

What was even funnier, really, is that Dustin only caught the end there and almost fell out if his seat laughing at the prospect of Damen becoming very excited to throw a cat liver at a cow.


Why did I say it looked like a cat liver? That's another story. . .

It ain't easy. . .

Being a parent.

To give birth, make a child, relatively simple(for most). It's what comes next that's HARD.

It's hard to say NO, over and over and over again.
It's hard to discipline.
It's hard to teach and be patient.
It's hard to stand your ground and be mean.

Life's lessons start at home, with us, parents. If we give in, or give up, what are we teaching then?




This is not a job for pushovers or the lazy. It ain't easy being a parent.

Words

While watching a movie the other night I noticed a 1 minute snippet of something that got me thinking. (Oh yeah, this post may be a wee bit deeper than usual)

I like literature. To say that I LOVE to read would be the ultimate understatement, it's more of an obsession really. And what is reading, but learning new concepts, and ideas through words, in my case lots and lots of words. I also like to talk, on the phone, in person, wherever.

Someone in the movie was talking about how our vocabulary is 1/3 of what the average persons was 100 years age. Now, this movie came out a few years ago and was set in the early '90s so it's safe to say that this comment was intended to be made before the loathsome arts of IMing, Texting and Tweeting took over the conversation. I say loathsome mainly because it is practically impossible to get a meaningful point across while _____ing. I can understand a few quick notes: Sorry I'm late, Where are you? Pick me up. That sort of quick info that doesn't require a phone call, but entire conversations of back and forth, braking up, and making dates is just plain lazy!

So many things can go wrong, especially if the texter is someone like me and does not fully understand the art of shorthand. Se wht i man, jst ty 2 deper tis 1! R U oly sppsd 2 shrtn th lng wrds or tke t ll th vwls? I have no idea. And why do I have to? Can't I just call you to set up a good time to come over, plan the baby shower, or get that recipe? Are you too busy for all of those words to answer the phone, write a letter, or even respond to an email? (I don't consider email the same thing as the other forms of electronic correspondence that are stupid, because I like it and I don't have to shorten any words)

So if our vocabulary really is shrinking does that mean we're becoming dumber because of it? It certainly doesn't take a lot of thought to send a text. Are we leaving out so many words that were necessary? Shakespeare has Romeo use about 10 lines to say basically, "Juliet is HOT and I really want to meet her!" If you cut out all the other words you get right to the point sure, but you don't get a feeling for the passion and the desire that he holds for her. AND you don't have to think about what's happening. That's what I think is missing, the thinking, pondering, about what's being said/written.

Maybe it is just lazy, or thrilling to have instant gratification with a few words, or maybe it's literary ignorance. Whatever the case may be, I miss all the words! I like the conversations. And lets be honest folks, laughter is much better heard than spelled.
LOL.

Scripture Power?

Damen likes to "read" to us his own scriptures after Dustin and I read to him. He opens up his scriptures and usually says stuff like "And it came to pass, and behold." Until tonight. This is what he "read":

"And the witch came to the Nephi and turned him into a frog. Then the good Knight came. He turned the witch into a Nephi."

Dustin and I were snickering up a storm!